Monday, March 31, 2025

Spiritual Parenting

 Guidelines during pregnancy:

  1. Having a vegetarian diet
  2. Listening to music
  3. Learning an artform or a language
  4. Reading books that nourish the soul
  5. Spending quality time with nature and animals
  6. Meditate
Guidelines for Parents
  1. Love your children for who they are, and not for what they do
  2. Understand that your children are not your property. They have their own life purpose. Don't push them to fulfill your unfulfilled desires
  3. Your children need to be aware that your personal problems have nothing to do with them and they are not responsible for that
  4. Accept your parents as they are and thank them for what they have done for you, as that compassion towards them will translate into your parenting as well
Children needs
  1.  To be loved unconditionally
  2.  To be taught that true happiness is sourced from within-how our experience of life is defined by the internal landscape
  3.  To feel safe and secure
  4.  To have quality time with you
  5. For their creativity and imagination to be nurtured
  6. For their natural strengths to be encouraged, so their individuality can flourish and unique aspects appreciated
  7.  To be taught about their mistakes in a healthy way, free of guilt
  8. Attention to their patterns so as the adult you can pin point something they might be struggling with and consider gentle solutions that foster growth 
  9. Space to develop their own beliefs through personal experience
  10. Learning about processing difficult emotions- how relaxing the body and focusing on the physical sensations instead of thoughts can allow painful emotions to be processed fully instead of getting suppressed
Ways to encourage Spiritual Growth in your Child
  1. Meditate together
  2. Introduce spirituality early on
  3. Don't pretend to have all the answers.  
  4. Follow a gratitude practice together. Eg. A daily journal for listing what you are thankful for.
  5. Serve others together, so they experience genuine joy of giving
  6. Enjoy learning activities together, so they build positive associations with studying
  7. Live by example
  8. Show them kindness, compassion, forgiveness. Keep their innocence in mind.
  9. Use daily events as live examples to teach spirituality
  10. Give them plenty of time with animals and nature
  11. Infuse a sense of playfulness

The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz that would work beautifully for a more peaceful and joyous life for you and your children:



Thursday, October 3, 2024

The Essence of Vipassana

The Triple Gem🌱:
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Buddha - Anyone who is fully enlightened
Dhamma - The law of nature; The teaching of an enlightened person; The way to liberation
Sangha - Anyone who has practiced Dhamma and has become a pure-minded, Saintly person

The three trainings🌱:
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Sīla - Morality
Samādhi - Concentration, Mastery of the mind
Paññā - Wisdom, Insight that purifies the mind

Sila🌱:
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To abstain from killing any being
To abstain from stealing
To abstain from sexual misconduct
To abstain from wrong speech
To abstain from all intoxicants

The three roots of all mental defilements🌱:
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Rāga/Lobha - Craving
Dosa - Aversion
Moha - Ignorance

The Four Noble Truths🌱:
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1.The fact of suffering 
2.the origin of suffering (craving) 
3.the cessation of suffering 
4.the path leading to the cessation of suffering 

The Noble Eightfold Path🌱:
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sammā-vācā - right speech
sammā-kammanta - right action
samna-ājīvā - right livelihood
sammā-vāyama - right effort
sammā-sati - right awareness
sammā-samādhi - right concentration
sammā-saṅkappa - right thought
sammā-diṭṭhi - right understanding

Kamma - action; specifically, an action one performs which will have an effect on one's future (Sanskrit karma)

The three kinds of wisdom🌱:
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suta-mayā paññā - wisdom gained by listening to others
cintā-mayā paññā - intellectual, analytical understanding
bhāvanā-mayā paññā- wisdom based on direct personal experience

The three characteristics of phenomena🌱:
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aniccā - impermanence
anattā - egolessness
dukkha - suffering

The five aggregates of which a human being is composed🌱:
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rūpa - matter; the physical body composed of subatomic particles (kalāpa)
viññāṇa - consciousness, cognition
saññā - perception, recognition
vedanā - sensation
saṅkhārā - reaction; mental conditioning

The four material elements🌱:
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pathavī - earth (solidity, weight)
āpo - water (fluidity, cohesion)
vāyo - air (gaseousness, motion)
tejo - fire (temperature)

The four causes for the arising of matter🌱:
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food 
environment/atmosphere 
a present mental reaction 
a past mental reaction 

Nibbāna - the unconditioned, the ultimate reality which is beyond mind and matter (Sanskrit nirvāṇa)

Satipaṭṭhāna - the establishing of awareness; synonym for Vipassana

The four satipatthanas are🌱:
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kāyānupassanā - observation of the body
vedanānupassanā - observation of bodily sensations
cittānupassanā - observation of the mind
dhammānupassanā - observation of mental contents

The five hindrances or enemies🌱:
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kāmacchanda - craving
vyāpāda - aversion
thina-middha - physical sloth and mental torpor
uddhacca-kukkucca - agitation and worry
vicikicchā - doubt, uncertainty

The five strengths or friends🌱:
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saddhā - confidence
vīriya - effort
sati - awareness
samādhi - concentration
paññā- wisdom

The ten parami or mental perfections🌱:
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nekkhamma - renunciation
sīla- morality
vīriya - effort
khantī - tolerance
sacca - truthfulness
adhiṭṭhāna - strong determination
paññā - wisdom
upekkhā - equanimity
mettā - selfless love
dāna- generosity; donation

The four qualities of a pure mind🌱:
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mettā - selfless love
karuṇā - compassion
muditā - sympathetic joy
upekkhā - equanimity            

Bhavatu sabba maṅgalaṃ🌱- May all beings be happy!

Sādhu, sādhu, sādhu🌱- weIl said, well done; we agree, we share this wish

Monday, June 27, 2022

Forgiveness

Forgiveness means doing the work necessary to process and understand the feelings of pain from an experience, allowing it to move through you, then coming out the other side ready to forgive but not forget.

🌼 Forgiveness is something you do for yourself.
Remember that forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to tell the other person that you forgive them.

🌼 You forgive to set yourself and your heart free, and this does not mean you have to re-establish a relationship.

🌼 You absolutely do not have to let them back into your life.

🌼 Forgiveness does not mean forgetting.
It also does not mean what happened was okay.

🌼Forgiveness sets you free from the trauma and the other person.

🌼 Forgiveness is for you not the other person.

🌼 Forgiveness gives you your power, and love for yourself and your life back

🌼 Forgiveness means you have all the teachings you need from the experience and now you’re living life fully alive and free.

(It’s ok to forgive people, and still deny them access to you.-R.H. Sin)

Wednesday, June 22, 2022

True Joy

 It is a funny thing about life; if you refuse to accept anything but the best you very often get it. 
-W. Somerset Maugham 
Eknath Easwaran's Commentary

We must be careful not to mistake agitation for fulfillment, excitement for joy. When our mind is not turbulent for a little while, we tend to think we’re in a slump and start groping about for something that can stir it up again: a thrilling movie, a stiff drink, a spirited quarrel, anything to “get the juices flowing.” Taken one by one these may seem like fairly innocuous forms of indulgence, yet in their long-range cumulative impact, they deplete us and deflect us from our real goals. 
When we fix our eyes on a higher goal, we begin to see beyond the immediate appeal of short-term satisfactions. Confident that a far greater joy is ours, we can hold out against the voices from all sides that cajole, “Eat this; drink that; watch this; buy that.” True joy is found when the mind is still, not when it is excited. 

Saturday, January 29, 2022

Spiritual path - Fear and Security

On this path, effort never goes to waste, and there is no failure. Even a little effort toward spiritual awareness will protect you from the greatest fear. 
-Bhagavad Gita 
Eknath Easwaran's Commentary

To be truly secure, we must begin to find a source of security within ourselves. Even the bravest among us have many fears. Behind the attachment to money or possessions, for example, you will always find the fear of loss. Attachment to prestige brings the nagging fear of what others think of us. The thirst for power feeds the fear that others may be stronger. Every self-centered desire brings the fear that we may not get what we desire. 

One could make a Sears catalog of these fears, but all stem from one fatal superstition: thinking of ourselves as merely physical creatures, separate from the rest of life. As our sense of oneness with the rest of life deepens, we step out of the world of fear to live in the world of love. 

Tuesday, May 18, 2021

Stress and Tension

Mental tensions, frustrations, insecurity, aimlessness are among the most damaging stressors, and psychosomatic studies have shown how often they cause migraine headache, peptic ulcers, heart attacks, hypertension, mental disease, suicide, or just hopeless unhappiness. 

-Hans Selye

Eknath Easwaran's Commentary

A great deal of psychological stress comes from the rush and hurry of a turbulent mind, which jumps recklessly to unwarranted conclusions, rushes to judgments, and often is going too fast to see events and people as they truly are. Such a mind keeps the body under continual tension. It is constantly on the move – desiring, worrying, hoping, fearing, planning, defending, rehearsing, criticizing. It cannot stop or rest except in deep sleep, when the whole body, particularly the nervous system, heaves a sigh of relief and tries to repair the damage of the day. 


Simply by slowing down the mind – the first purpose of meditation – much of this tension can be removed. Then we are free to respond to life’s difficulties not as sources of stress but as challenges, which will draw out of us deeper resources than we ever suspected we had. A one-pointed mind is slow and sound, which gives it immense resilience under stress. With a mind like this, we always have a choice in how we respond to life around us. 

Thursday, May 6, 2021

Grounding

Grounding is being totally present in your body and feeling connected to mother earth. Having self-worth, a sense of purpose and deep trust in yourself.

Grounding can be done by:

  1. Hugging a tree
  2. Connecting with Nature
  3. Giving energy to plants - Say thank you to the plants around you; feel love and appreciation towards them.
  4. Plantation
  5. Walking barefoot on the ground
  6. Taking a bath
  7. Breathing deeply
  8. Yogasan and Pranayam
  9. Meditation
  10. Serving others
  11. Disconnecting from social media and news
  12. Positive Affirmations: https://learningspiritualscience.blogspot.com/search/label/Affirmations

Saturday, April 17, 2021

Positivity and Optimism

 Yes, positivity can be toxic too.

Let's not discount another's feelings,  or brush away how they're feeling in a moment in time.  Instead,  let's hold space,  be present, be empathetic, and be accessible. Ask what would one need to feel better? Do not forget to check on one's or your own boundaries while you do all or one of these. Let's bring empathy, compassion, and grace back.


Courtesy: Nidhi Singh Samyal

Tuesday, March 30, 2021

Self Love

As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is “AUTHENTICITY”.

As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody if I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it “RESPECT”.

As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it “MATURITY”.

As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm. Today I call it “SELF-CONFIDENCE”.

As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it “SIMPLICITY”.

As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is “LOVE OF ONESELF”.

As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is “MODESTY”.

As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worrying about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where everything is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it “FULFILLMENT”.

As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection “WISDOM OF THE HEART”.

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know “THAT IS LIFE”!

- Charlie Chaplin

Tuesday, January 12, 2021

Composting tips

Composting process is very simple as it requires Kitchen Wet Waste (Nitrogen), dry leaves/shredded paper/cocopeat (Carbon) and Oxygen. First add a layer of crushed dry leaves or cocopeat or dry soil and then put a layer of kitchen green waste (Do not add any cooked food) and cover it again with crushed dry leaves/ shredded paper/cocopeat. Just keep on layering greens and browns every day. 

Few tips:

1. Chop materials before putting them in the compost bin. The smaller it is, the faster it will break down. 
2. Each layer should be around 2 centimeters.
3. Mix up the mixture every week so that the compost will introduce oxygen and speed up the composting process. 
4. Adding few spoons of sour buttermilk every week or 10 days will add microbes and may speed up the composting. Do not make it too wet.
5. Add some existing compost to the bin and this will speed up the process due to microbes present in the compost.
6. If it smells bad, it probably means it's not decomposing properly; maybe your pile might be too wet or you might need to readjust your ratios of greens and browns.
7. The pile should be damp, not soggy.

Sunday, December 13, 2020

GRATITUDE AS A MINDFUL PRACTICE IN DAY TO DAY LIFE

       
Gratitude is a great  ATTITUDE which can be developed in a deeper sense on a "daily basis" to elevate us to a greater ALTITUDE... as we get entangled in the vicissitudes 
of daily grind. .  It can truly be an antidote to stress..  If only we can learn the art of sanitizing our minds, with consistent practice of  'Living in Gratitude"..... exactly in the rhythm
of our breathing (to be precise), we can reap the great benefits to holistic healing.


Primarily, we need to understand that it is much more than the lip service of saying "thank you'. .  It is the FEELING of ABUNDANCE to sense the gratitude as a mindfulness
exercise as a ritual.  A thankful heart is on a continuous feast with every heartbeat; as it  can be tuned to pulsate with gratitude in all the activities all through our wakeful
hours to bring about  WELLNESS  both to our body and mind.

Secondly, before we  understand "why" gratitude is important to inculcate in our daily life, let us get clarity about how our bodies function based on our thoughts and feelings.
Quantum physics says... EVERYTHING  is ENERGY.  So, our THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS are also subtle forms of energy vibrations which are responsible to bring vibrant health to our cells... leading to happiness.  YES! every cell in our body is eavesdropping on our thoughts and feelings.  So, unless we change our thought patterns, we will continue to recycle the stressful experiences again and again.

"As you think,,, you feel...as you feel you radiate..as you radiate...you create"  .  Hence.. to create ABUNDANCE we need to FEEL and THINK abundance.. Living in GRATITUDE is the shortcut  to bring holistic wellness into our lives.. These FEELINGS and THOUGHTS of ABUNDANCE can bring chemical changes at the cellular level; when the neurotransmitters release the feel good hormones like the endorphins, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin etc... which can actually decrease... cortisol  the stress hormone to most minimal .... leading to illness..  
To dispel darkness, all that we need to do is bring light into it.  Similarly, GRATITUDE is the "light of healing" to dispel illness !! So... the dire need today for HOLISTIC WELLNESS is to develop our own customised GPS.  (Gratitude Positioning System) '

Now... HOW to "kick start"  this Gratitude in our daily routine?

One of the important laws which governs the universe is the LAW OF ATTRACTION.  Our energy field is like the "magnet" which can attract what we radiate.. as mentioned earlier.   Hence....living in gratitude  as a "way of life" impacts all the areas of our life and can magically transform every aspect of our living. 

The easiest way one can kick start this attraction is COUNTING THE BLESSINGS we are blessed with... which we so easily overlook.... or take it for granted!
So to begin with this WELLNESS program for ourselves.. Maintain a GRATITUDE JOURNAL wherein we write (not key-in) five things daily as a ritual for what we feel grateful for... and thank the people or situations connected to.. Also to list all the bountiful blessings we get from the nature around.

All of us have a "To-do" list to accomplish, which is good... but let us also have a "To-Be" list so that we can truly  transform ourselves from Human DOINGS to Human BEINGS.
If we cannot get to do what we love, let us learn to love what we do.. by simply focusing on gratitude in whatever activity we're doing.

To just BE, we need to train ourselves to tune in to our breaths every now and then... to truly sense our BEINGNESS (minus the ear phones). Every two to three hours, just for
three to five minutes. "Being  with our breathing" can calm us down and relax us. It can ground us to the present moment in hand, making us more productive and dynamic with the task at hand.

As we "implant" the thoughts and feelings of  abundance in our subconscious mind, our brains can be re-wired and outlook to  life changes. It is the small habits in the morning which  sets the tone for the day. So, what we talk to the self, what we read, what we watch, with whom we interact determine the energy level in us!  Let us learn to take the first pause in our mornings to make a new beginning each day and intentionally infuse gratitude.. to bring out the best version of ourselves.

Finally a few simple do-able  tips.

1. In the morning after we wake up and before we get out of the bed.. Thank the sun light.. the wonderful dawn.. for seeing us alive. Thank the  bed which gave the sound sleep in the night which made us fresh and rejuvenated . As we put the feet on the ground, Thank the planet Earth for sustaining life for us with bountiful blessings. Take a few breaths with awareness and FEEL abundance from within to truly get connected to the new day ahead

2. As we brush our teeth, we can practice SELF LOVE.  do the Self talk.. Thanking the teeth, the tongue, oral cavity, all the organs (the Lungs, heart, brain, kidneys, pancreas  etc etc), all the systems (respiratory, Neural, Lymphatic, endocrine, excretory, etc etc), all our five sense organs making us sense the world around us. How many times have we thanked our "hands" for  "doing" all that we DO. Or the "legs" which walk this planet?..in perfect coordination ..bringing health to both the hemispheres of our brain.
 Every morning.. say..  I Am Grateful for the unique expression of this wonderful creation.  Appreciate the miracle happening inside without any reminders from our side!

Remember! the more we acknowledge and appreciate our good health.. the more good health we attract.. as the Love energy weaves magic inside.

3. Thank and feel the 'abundance'.for the WATER (which is the source of LIFE) every time we sip water, or use it for so many other purposes, let us FEEL deep gratitude for this irreplaceable blessing on this planet. Water has a great memory and by simply expressing our Love and thanks to it.. we can  change the molecular structure of it which can carry the message of LOVE to our cells.

4..Feeling abundance from within as we take our FOOD... Thank the farmers who grow it, the fire which cooks it,  the Trees which are constantly supplying for our nourishment, and thank all the other invisible forces and people who are responsible to bring food to our plates day in and day out.  Allow the feelings of gratitude to increase exponentially with every meal.
Declare respect and value to the digestive system which is making the person we are.

5.The easiest practice of gratitude is to keep thanking ALL the inanimate objects we use in our daily life.  making our life easy. At home, including all our personalised items from toothbrushes, combs to the various electronic gadgets we use, the various items in the kitchen, washrooms etc etc. 

6. Thank the planet Earth for the gravity for sustaining life to so many lakhs of species, the ozone layer, the forests, the wild life, the marine life, the natural resources and minerals, the mountains, natural flora and fauna etc.  Connecting to nature as much as we can and thanking every step while we walk... ( minus the ear phones) can ground us beyond our imagination. Hugging a tree is also very therapeutic  . Try it.

7. A challenging gratitude task would be to thank all the so called negative people and negative past events. By focussing on the lessons learnt therein... by simply focussing on the positive aspects of it and express heartfelt gratitude.. can help in transformation from within. (this can be a weekend activity)

8. Appreciate, compliment and thank parents, siblings, friends, and all our support system.. be it maids, drivers and all our service providers to make our life smooth and comfortable.

9. Thank your jobs, your team mates, colleagues. Thank the organisation for hiring you and for bringing out the best out of you. Thank all the money you earn and spend ..to be blessed with more wealth to sail through smoothly.  Basically love everything and everyone in the day.  Each day... every day that follows.

Last but not least.. start your day with Gratitude, end your day with gratitude and FILL the day with Gratitude... To experience a blissful life, waiting to bloom and be the best version of ourselves... moment to moment.. breath to breath.... 

Let us all commit to  Live in Gratitude, as a way of life!!. THANK YOU.....

Savitri Patnaik.
Reiki Grand master

Sunday, August 30, 2020

Spiritual wisdom - Adveta Vedanta


Swami Sarvapriyananda simplifies spiritual wisdom through his clear words. With Indian Vedanta Philosophy at its core, he talks about the similarity in Buddhism and Adveta Vedanta in a profound way. Incredible wisdom!



Friday, August 7, 2020

Some wonderful books

A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose by Eckhart Tolle

Ashtavakra Geeta (Hindi Edition) Swami Prakhar Pragyanand

A Search in Secret India by Paul Brunton

Be As You Are: The Teachings of Sri Ramana Maharshi by David Godman

Being in Balance by Wayne W. Dyer

Being Nobody, Going Nowhere by Ayya Khema

Being Supernatural - Dr Joe Dispenza 

Beyond mindfulness in plain English - Henepola Gunaratana 

Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One by Joe Dispenza

Born to Win: Transactional Analysis with Gestalt Experiments by Dorothy Jongeward and Muriel James

Buddha's brain - Rick Hanson 

Dying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing by Anita Moorjani

Get the life you want - Richard Bandler 

I am OK you're OK - Thomas A Harris

I Am That by Nisargadatta Maharaj

Jonathan Livingston Seagull - Richard Bach

Krishna: The Man and His Philosophy by Osho

Letting go: The pathway of surrender by Dr David R Hawkins

Living with Himalayan masters by Swami Ram

Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl

Many Lives, Many Masters by Brian Weiss

Meditations by Jiddu Krishnamurti

Old path white clouds - Thich Nhat Hanh 

Power versus Force - David R Hawkins 

Silence - Thich Nhat Hanh 

Stillness Speaks by Eckhart Tolle

Sundaram Speaks - Hitesh Vashist 

Teachings of Ramana Maharshi in His Own Words by Arthur Osborne

The art and science of meditation - Dr Newton and Chitra Jha 

The Autobiography of a Yogi - Paramahansa Yogananda 

The Book of Mirdad by Mikhail Naimy

The breakthrough experience - Dr John Demartini 

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom - Don Miguel Ruiz 

The Fifth Agreement by Don Miguel Ruiz and Don Jose Ruiz

The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle

The science of past life regression - Dr Newton and Dr Lakshmi 

The Shadow Effect: Illuminating the Hidden Power of Your True Self - Deepak Chopra, Marianne Williamson, Debbie Ford 

The Surrender Experiment - Michael A Singer 

The Tao of Physics by Fritjof Capra

The Untethered Soul - Michael A Singer 

True Purpose: 12 Strategies for Discovering the Difference You Are Meant to Make by Tim Kelley

You are the placebo - Dr Joe Dispenza 

You Can Heal Your Life - Louise L. Hay

Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life by Jon Kabat-Zinn

Who Will Cry When you Die? Life Lessons from the Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma

चित्तशक्ति विलास - स्वामी मुक्तानंद 


Books on Heath, Fitness and Natural Living

12 Steps to Raw Foods: How to End Your Dependency on Cooked Food by Victoria Boutenko

Become Healthy or Extinct by Darryl D'Souza

Colon Health by Dr Norman W Walker 

Finding Ultra by Rich Roll

Fruitarianism: The Path To Paradise by Anne Osborne

Grains The cause of human diseases - Dr NK Sharma 

Health in your hands Vol 1 and 2 - Devendra Vora

I've decided to live 120 years by Ilchi Lee

Lifespan: Why We Age – and Why We Don't Have To by David Sinclair

Mucusless-Diet Healing System by Arnold Ehret

Return to Nature by Adolf Just 

The 80/10/10 Diet by Douglas Graham

The China Study by T. Colin Campbell and Thomas M. Campbell

Monday, August 3, 2020

The words of the tongue should have three gatekeepers. -Arab proverb 


Eknath Easwaran's Commentary
Before words get past the lips, the first gatekeeper asks, “Is this true?” That stops a lot of traffic immediately. But if the words get past the first gatekeeper, there is a second who asks, “Is it kind?” And for those words that qualify here too, the last gatekeeper asks, “Is it necessary?”

With these three on guard, most of us would find very little to say. Here I think it is necessary to make exceptions in the interests of good company and let the third gatekeeper look the other way now and then. After all, a certain amount of pleasant conversation is part of the artistry of living. But the first two gatekeepers should always be on duty.

It is so easy to say something at the expense of another for the purpose of enhancing our own image. But such remarks – irresistible as they may be – serve only to fatten our egos and agitate others. We should be so fearful of hurting people that even if a clever remark is rushing off our tongue, we can barricade the gate. We should be able to swallow our cleverness rather than hurt someone. Better to say something banal but harmless than to be clever at someone else’s expense. 

Saturday, July 4, 2020

Coaching

In the process of working and coaching with clients invariably there is a time when the client experiences being stuck , there are a few useful questions which then lead to a call for action that eventually gets the person unstuck and on the way to where they want to go.

1. What truth have you not spoken? - Speak it
2. What lies have you said? - Clean your Act
3. What do you still owe to others? - Return it
4. What do others still owe you? - Get it back
5. What agreements have you not kept? - Apologise
6. What amends do you need to do? Keep it
7. Where do you have Clutter in your life? Clear it
8. What boundaries have you to draw in your personal, official, professional and social life? - Draw it and go public with it.

This has been working well with many of my clients, because they need to take time to ponder over it and usually their unconscious lands them the whammy that they need to handle and then from thereon pure magic unfolds! Try it.

-Krish Srikanth

Thursday, July 2, 2020

Health, a light body, freedom from cravings, a glowing skin, sonorous voice, fragrance of body: these signs indicate progress in the practice of meditation. 
-Shvetashvatara Upanishad 


Eknath Easwaran's Commentary
If you are practicing meditation regularly, be sure to get adequate physical exercise. This is very important. The deeper your interior life, the greater the need for vigorous physical activity. People sometimes fall into a kind of lethargy in the mistaken belief that this is what it means to work without tension. It is just the opposite. The body is our instrument of physical service, and it thrives on vigorous movement. If you are young or already in good condition, vigorous here means vigorous. Swimming, running, and fast-paced sports that require concentration are all excellent exercise. But unless you are in condition, do not jump into such activities immediately. Work up to them gradually. If you are over thirty-five or have any particular physical problems, ask your doctor to start you on an exercise program.

In meditation we gradually reduce our obsessive identification with the body. The body will begin to feel lighter, our step will be more buoyant, and our senses will come more easily under our control. By getting plenty of physical exercise, we help this process along.

Saturday, June 13, 2020

Healthy diet methodologies

New Diet System - NDS


Website: https://newdietsystem.org/

Video on what is New Diet System (NDS) and how to do it - Step by step to the New Diet System (NDS)  https://youtu.be/a6bmM_uK1L4


नई भोजन प्रथा (श्री बी वी चौहान साहब प्रेरित) अमरीष पटेल का हिंदी में सेमिनार के कुल ३ भाग में यह वीडियो (मोहन खेड़ा - मध्य्प्रदेश Dt-२९/१२/२०१९)
1) Part 1/3 : https://youtu.be/ULleilub9P8
2) Part 2/3: https://youtu.be/LrGBsupeWuQ
3) Part 3/3 : https://youtu.be/ZOVAtQciXQM

New Diet System - Amrish Patel. You Tube Video Hindi हिंदी in 4 parts.

Part 1/4 - https://youtu.be/sNPvsPW_lnY
Part 2/4 - https://youtu.be/kXKUMwJEleI
Part 3/4 - https://youtu.be/lKIxR_AbAoo
Part 4/4 - https://youtu.be/_D93yYaocRI


Green juice recipe -

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUuFjgnCSx0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ky2fk0Nz5iA

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Millets


Website: www.khadervali.net

DO'S & DONT'S OF A HEALTHY LIFESTYLE
FOOD: Eat five millets mentioned above (Siridhanyalu) as a staple food. One can make all breakfast and snacks like idli, dosa, rotis, rice items, snacks, sweet and hot using these 5 siridhanyaalu.
HERBAL DECOCTION/KASHAYAMS: Drink herbal decoctions or kashayams made from fresh leaves. Take a fistful of clean fresh leaves, boil in structured water for 3 to 4 minutes, strain and drink.

STRUCTURED WATER: Store water in a steel or clay pot with copper plate immersed in it for 7 hours or overnight. Use this water the next day for all cooking and drinking purposes. Cleaning copper plate daily with tamarind or lemon is mandatory.

DO NOT MIX MILLETS. Never use as multigrain flour. Each millet is unique and helps in curing our body when taken individually.
QUIT rice, wheat, meat/non-veg, eggs, refined wheat flour/maida, tea, coffee, sugar, A1(jersey)milk, packaged and junk foods, refined oils, dry fruits, soya, chocolates.
MILK: We can use desi cow milk for making curd, buttermilk and ghee (never consume milk directly). One can even extract milk at home by using sesame seeds, groundnuts, finger millet, coconut, safflower seeds. We can even use this milk to make the curd.
OILS: Use only wooden ghani oils (bull driven) as they are cold pressed and so preserve the nutrients extracted from groundnuts, safflower, sesame and coconut. Store them in steel or glass jars.
SWEETENER: Use palm jaggery as a sweetener instead of sugar. (Not suggested for Diabetic patients). Never use artificial sweeteners.
COOKING UTENSILS: Use steel (salem steel 304) or clay utensils for cooking. We can use iron tawa for chapatis and dosa. (Avoid cooking in cookers)
EXERCISE: Walk for at least 1 hour daily.
MEDITATION: Meditate for 10 to 15 minutes.
SLEEP: Sleep in total darkness without any lights for a good and undisturbed sleep.Wakeup before sunrise, complete dinner by sunset, sleep by 9 pm.

Youtube videos:
V1.0 - Siridhanya(Millets) - Ultimate Solution to Good Health - Dr.Khadar Valli

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqsFDIpPJdc&feature=youtu.be

V 2.0 - Siridhanya(Millets) - Ultimate Solution to Good Health - Dr.Khadar Valli

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWTAVBvsinY&feature=youtu.be

Other Youtube links:

PDF books:


Five millets

1. Banyard Millet
2. Browntop Millet
3. Foxtail Millet
4. Kodo Millet
5. Little Millet


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Advance training on Health by dr. Biswaroop roy chowdhury

Part 1 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2dF33azwtU

Part 2 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qTvoXPkZDTw

Part 3 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gMa7GZ_EwQw

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International Association for Scientific Spiritualism (IASS)  - तप सेवा सुमिरन 

Website: https://iass.info/

आरोग्य चर्चा - डॉ गोपाल शास्त्री, आई. ए.एस.एस., मेरठ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mYFPcdLyy7k&feature=youtu.be

QUESTION-ANSWER SESSION WITH DR GOPAL SHASTRI MEERUT
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z27JQQiasy4&feature=youtu.be

QUESTION-ANSWER SESSION PART 2
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IRqmQavYNRY

Friday, June 12, 2020

Desire

I reached in experience the nirvana which is unborn, unrivalled, secure from attachment, undecaying and unstained. This condition is indeed reached by me which is deep, difficult to see, difficult to understand, tranquil, excellent, beyond the reach of mere logic, subtle, and to be realized only by the wise.
The Buddha, on attaining enlightenment 


Eknath Easwaran's Commentary
The Buddha is sometimes quoted as saying that desire is suffering. A more accurate translation is that selfish desire is suffering – in fact, the source of all suffering. But desire itself is simply power, neither good nor bad.

Without the tremendous power of desire, there can be no progress on the spiritual path; there can be no progress anywhere. The whole secret of spiritual transformation is turning selfish desire into selfless desire, transforming personal passions into the overwhelming desire to attain life’s highest goal. This is not repression; it is transformation.